Yes, I C✂️T my hair.
👉🏿FOUR years ago!
Sorry, y’all. But I did cut it!
Here’s the story: Four years ago it was Christmas 2014 in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia. I began taking out my waist-length Beyoncé braids and finally had enough. I got my scissors and made a decision. This hair was about to be GONE.
In 2011 I did the same thing. I texted my sisters saying, “Y’all, I just took craft scissors and cut my hair.” They didn’t believe me. I sent them a pic and they all called me simultaneously.
Best. Decision. Ever. For my hair.
It gave me a clean slate. Fast forward to December 2014, Christmas Day. I clearly felt loaded with emotions of missing home and that I graded papers at King Saud University most of the day.
Needless to say, my spirit lacked JOY. In a non-emotionally-sober moment, I snipped. And snipped. And the next thing I knew, it was all gone. And I loved it. Then I hated it. It didn’t feel like the 2011 cut. The same woman in 2011 paled in comparison to who stood before me.
Worst. Decision. Ever. For my hair.
But I GREW from it. I learned:
When making long-term decisions, be sober.
Go through your little checklist, first.
Am I in the flesh?
What’s my motive?
What does God’s Word day about this?
What is God speaking to me?
Is this wise?
Who will be impacted if I make this choice?
How does this improve lives?
Will my conscience be clear?
Is this a selfish act?
That is my list for MAJOR decisions. Now, I don’t know if all of this really applies to hair, but it’s just a good guide.
Presently, my hair is safe and sound underneath some faux locs. It’s one of my favorite protective styles to get. My friend Chris Brookins did them this time in less than four hours. Still uncertain as to how he moves so quickly.
This is what I want to leave with you:
Be led by God. Be led by His voice. Move in His direction.
“I will instruct thee and teach thee in the way which thou shall go: I will guide thee with mine eye.” Psalm 32:8
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With Deep Love and Gratitude,